Every morning, my day begins with gratitude—a quiet moment to thank God for my life, my health, my family, and every blessing He has bestowed upon me. This ritual of giving thanks, whether at home or in church, is the cornerstone of my happiness and success. It’s not about the material gifts, though I am grateful for those too, but the peace and love that God has poured into my life.

There were times when I clung desperately to people and things, trying to fill an inner emptiness. But in those moments of loss and loneliness, as I cried out to God, He revealed Himself to me. He filled the void with His abundant love, showing me that true fulfillment comes not from external sources but from Him. This love has given me something far greater than fleeting happiness—it has given me lasting joy and inner peace.

This realization, however, has made it challenging for me to connect with people who lack spiritual depth. When someone doesn’t know or acknowledge God, it shows in their actions, their outlook, and even their demeanor. There’s a distinct difference in how people filled with God’s love live—they radiate positivity, optimism, and joy. Without this connection to the divine, many fall into unhappiness, no matter how much they achieve or acquire.

The root of this issue, I believe, is that many try to understand God intellectually. But spirituality isn’t of the mind—it’s of the spirit. We are body, mind, and spirit, and while people often nurture their bodies and minds, they neglect their spirits. This imbalance leads to a lack of depth, wisdom, and true contentment.

For me, spirituality is not an intellectual exercise; it’s a mystical connection that transcends understanding. Without nurturing the spirit, we remain incomplete. This is why I struggle with people who lack this depth—they’re often disconnected, chasing external solutions instead of turning inward to God.

In my journey, I’ve come to realize that no human being, no counselor, no motivational speech can replace the guidance and love of God. People are fallible, just like me. Only through faith can we find the strength, peace, and balance to live fully.

If we want a truly balanced and fulfilling life, we must nourish our spirits as much as our minds and bodies. This is the wisdom I’ve learned, and it’s why I will continue to turn to God for guidance, love, and the grace to navigate my relationships with others.