From a young age, I always sensed there was something inherently special about me. A quiet knowing guided me through much of my life, leading to incredible opportunities, meaningful events, and poignant relationships. Yet, despite this inner spark, I never quite reached the pinnacle of success I envisioned.

Looking back, I realize why. It wasn’t because I lacked potential or drive—it was because I didn’t fully understand my worth.

My mother often told me I was selling myself short, but for years, I didn’t grasp what she meant. Growing up in an environment where perfectionism reigned, I internalized feelings of inadequacy. I didn’t feel “good enough” or “worthy enough,” and that conditioning seeped into every corner of my life. Whether in business, friendships, or love, I knew what I wanted, but I didn’t have the clarity or courage to communicate my needs, set boundaries, or stand firm.

Instead, I found myself in situations where I compromised too much, settled too often, and allowed others to dictate my worth. My boundaries were blurred, my communication muddled, and my sense of self fractured. It’s no wonder I struggled to achieve the success and fulfillment I longed for—I was operating from a place of uncertainty about my own value.

But here’s the thing: knowing your worth changes everything. It’s the foundation for success in all areas of life—business, social, and personal. When you understand your value, you can:

1. Set Clear Boundaries: Define what you will and won’t tolerate.

2. Communicate Your Needs: State what you want unapologetically.

3. Walk Away When Necessary: Have the courage to leave situations that don’t serve you.

Without these pillars, you risk being manipulated, undervalued, or even toying with your own happiness.

I’ve learned this the hard way. But through the pain, I’ve grown. I’ve come to understand that the key to achieving success isn’t just hard work or ambition—it’s knowing who you are, what you deserve, and being firm in protecting that.

Today, I stand in a place of clarity and strength. I’ve come a long way, baby—and so can you. It starts with recognizing your inherent greatness, stepping into your worth, and refusing to settle for anything less than the life you deserve.