Life with God doesn’t excuse you from pain. The difficult moments will come—hardships, betrayals, and disappointments. But the difference with God is that He gives you the strength to face these struggles without losing yourself in destructive habits. Instead of seeking comfort in alcohol, overeating, or sexual escapades, I disciplined my self and found peace, resilience, and inner beauty by staying close to Him.

I have come to realize that God doesn’t remove the crosses we must bear; He gives me the daily grace to carry them with aplomb. My life is not perfect or free from suffering, but through prayer, meditation, and trust, I have discovered a deeper sense of peace. I learned that even in my pain, I can remain grounded, strong, and whole—only with Him.

The world offers many ways to numb our pain—addictions, distractions, and false escapes—but these only rob us of true peace. With God, I learned to stay present with my pain, allowing Him to guide me through it. When life felt heavy, I knew I was being held by a greater love, that I was not alone, and this gave me the ability to endure with grace.