When a man moves from one woman to another, never satisfied, always chasing, it’s often more than just a superficial desire for pleasure. It’s the manifestation of a deep, unresolved wound—one rooted in his relationship with his mother. This cycle of womanizing is not about love, but about pain, abandonment, and rejection that date back to his early years.

The truth is, no matter how many women he beds, no woman can heal this wound. It is a bottomless pit, one that no external validation can fill. His inability to love or connect is often disguised as promiscuity, but it’s actually a reflection of the hatred and anger he carries inside toward his mother. His deep-seated pain, which originated from the emotional neglect he suffered, leaks into his interactions with women. He might not even realize it, but in many cases, he repeats the cycle of rejection he experienced as a child. Deep down inside he does not feel worthy of love.. he feels that women will reject him so he rejects, before he s rejected any woman..

His womanising is all about staying “vigilant” and being in “control” at all times. That’s why he keeps himself detached and does not get close to anyone.

A man who truly loves a woman is not consumed by this pattern. He understands how to give and receive love, something a mother-wounded man struggles with. The man who womanizes often hates the very women he claims to desire. He may not even consciously intend to hurt them, but his actions—leaving them, using them, never fully committing—are a reflection of unresolved emotional trauma.

Recognizing these patterns is crucial for both men and women. A woman who comes into contact with a man suffering from a mother wound should not take it personally. She must understand that his inability to love is not a reflection of her worth but of his deep internal pain. Until he confronts this wound, he will continue to search for love in all the wrong places, perpetuating a cycle of emotional hurt.

The pain of the mother wound is often passed down from generation to generation. Just as a father’s emotional neglect can affect his children, so too can the absence of love from a mother. It is this brokenness that leads some men to seek validation through womanizing, trying to fill a void that was created long before they met you. Recognizing and healing from this wound is not only crucial for his emotional well-being but for the health of any relationship he seeks to build.