There’s a lot of talk going on about Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez, but what we’re really seeing here is two people with similar spiritual energies attracting and repelling each other. This isn’t just about celebrity gossip; it’s a real-life example of how manifestation and love work.

You see, we don’t attract what we want; we attract who we are. If you’re a person with low self-esteem or you lack the ability to regulate your emotions, you will likely find yourself in relationships that reflect those same issues. This is why some people jump into rebound relationships instead of taking the time to heal after a breakup. Rebound relationships rarely work because they’re entered into from a place of self-neglect rather than self-love.

A fundamental principle of relationships is this: you should enter into a relationship to give love, not to get it. When people get into relationships expecting to receive love without the intention to give it, they set themselves up for disappointment and heartbreak. Relationships built on taking rather than giving are bound to blow up because they lack the foundation of mutual respect and selflessness.

If you want a kind, loving, loyal, and generous partner, you have to be those things first. The universe responds to the energy we emit, not the desires we declare. We manifest who we are, not what we want. If you radiate positive energy, the universe will send similar energy back to you in the form of people who share those qualities.

It’s all about spiritual energy. The energy you put out into the world is like a magnet, drawing similar energies towards you. If your energy is negative, it will repel positive influences and instead attract chaos and drama. In these cases, your partner becomes a mirror, reflecting back to you the areas of your life that need healing.

So, if you want to manifest a healthy, loving relationship, start with yourself. Work on becoming the best version of you. Cultivate self-love, practice patience, and develop emotional stability. When your inner world is harmonious, your outer world will reflect that peace. Remember, you don’t manifest what you want; you manifest who you are. Choose to be love, and love will find its way to you.